Lifestyle tips

There really isn't a way to subtly mention you have a kink. It gets even trickier with feedism because so many aspects of this kink are doing things people outside the kink normally do.

Remember, you are looking for a kinkster in a sea of non-feedists. It is best to get to know the person first , see it you click, and then see if they'd be open to feeding you. Anything else leads to disappointment.

I do know ways to discreetly say you like feedees but not how you want to gain. “I like people heavier than me who can eat more than me”

That's hardly discreet. If anything, it's rather blunt.

Fair enough, it does get the point across without being too direct tho

Have you considered one of the more sex-positive apps like Feeld? Haven’t used it myself but from what I hear you can be more up front about your desires and preferences

I would agree with this wholeheartedly. As a woman who doesn't openly share my love of large & growing men, if I see the phrase foodie or anything describing food specifically (not just "I like tacos", more like, "looking for someone to share my enthusiasm for good meals or restaurants" ) on a dating app, I see potential 😉

I tried to disguise my fetish by writing that I like to eat good food and lie on the couch. People without a fetish thought I was a cat and even flirted, but unfortunately few people continued to communicate when I told them it was a fetish

Crying shame. Society is incredibly fatphobic. If you're fat, you can only lose weight or be neutral towards your size. But the moment you try to get fat on purpose, people think you're a sick freak.

Yes, I actively searched for a girl who will not forbid me this fetish, but I never found her, but a large number of men were ready to fatten me, but I can not offer them anything, because heterosexual.

Pain. I know there are some Russian female feeders on here, but the ones I've seen are all taken. Maybe you could consider something online?